Friday, December 17, 2010

December'to do list.


There is much that can still be done outdoor in the garden during December .so before it gets really really
cold get your garden in order.
 LEAVEN AND LAWNS.
 In December a good job in the final clearing up of leaves and composting of any suitable material that has;
com from  the borders such as when cutting back the last the herbaceau plant.

INDOOR WINTER PLANTS.
December is the perfect time to introduce winter indoor plants for example poinsettias cyclamen african violets.
chrysanthemums and azaleas. The key these indoor piants is to ensure that they never dry out that their very,
fine root systems are aiways kept moist and that they are put in a position where there is an adequate amount of light,on droughts and no exposure to excessive heat from radiators .If those few steps are carried out then there shouid be no problem move house plants off windowsills at night to protect them from the cold .If you have terracotta containers in your garden move them into the garden or store room to help prevent them from cacking.

BIRDS.
Birds need all the help they can get Birds seed ,bread ,kitchen scraps and traditional birds feeders should put out this time of years.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Rautahat VDC pataura



Post OptionsDecember'to do list.It is vilage it's a must beautyful area .In my vilage many natural things as like river,forest,lack,etc there is so

pourful temple .It's amust affarable temple .we the people praying the god to succes in our coltivation.
Our vilage is so peaceful in this area .there is so many lands for coltivation.We are gating so many crops


in our lands .There is a riverDecember'to do list..His name is lal bakaya It's a so dangerous.They cutting so many lands and
put on so many sand.we the people mostly care to him some time they through many compost soil in our land
Theen the former are many happines to him there the former are doing many pady and suger can to geating more
money It's aso beautyful area they were many happines at all region .In my vilage many cast people .
We the people have no different at any one .we the people living together at any time .
 There is so many touristal area to vigiting way .we the people to helps the tourist. there is nice road to traviling any were .we the people have no problem to go any way .there is so facility to transport .We are
saving the enveronment.we the people are going on education at all time ,we have so schools .were the
child are going to study in way we the peoples are poor but we are educated. we all the people are hindu we are mantains our colture like Dashain ,
Chhath, holi  etc .It's our main function we the people are enjoing in our festivle .we the people are proud of our vilage .It's a one of the vilage in our area .It's a so beautyful, happines and peaceful area in our distric .It's so nice at any region at any were .It's so touristal area in this way......

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Cork & Kerry - Tour The Southwest Of Ireland

And rest assured, what's on offer is, quite frankly, a lot! As we will see in the following paragraphs, Cork and Kerry offer the best blend of the things which are synonymous with Ireland for the pure Irish experience. Tours of Cork and Kerry meets everyone's tastes. Whether it's a relaxing scenic tour, an activity-filled fun tour, a golf tour, fishing tour or just a visit home for people who have a past with this country, Cork and Kerry provide the authentic taste of traditional Ireland for all people.

Traditions

Ireland's age old traditions have stood the test of time. They offer a look into the heritage of Ireland and also, more importantly, they keep the Irish identity strong and vibrant. This is important for every country in the world, as a country's traditions and history define its people. Easter Sunday, St. Patrick's day, Halloween, Christmas, and wedding traditions are to name but a few. All with their own charm, character and attraction. In Cork and Kerry is to be found traditional Irish music and dance which can be;seen in a huge variety of pubs and hotels on most nights. An experience which must be had by all those who come and visit.

Scenery

The scenery in Cork and Kerry is indeed a thing to behold. Views of the Atlantic coast which are unmatched;in all of Ireland. The rich green colour of the land contrasting with the dark rock of the cliffs and brilliant white spray of cascading Atlantic waves is something which will take your breath away. Though, in truth, it doesn't actually take your breath away, rather fills your lungs with the freshest air you'll ever have, which invigorates body, spirit and mind. Views from the top of the highest mountain in Ireland, Carrauntohill, can be experienced for most people who wish to make the trek. A view that is unsurpassed, as it offers panoramic views inland and also over the Atlantic, and beyond. Beautiful sandy beaches that stretch for miles are a familiar sight in Cork and Kerry, as are the lush, green valleys and vast national parks that are to be found.

Places of Interest

Besides the city of Cork and the towns of Tralee and Killarney in Kerry, one must tour the southwest coastline of Ireland and stop in the many towns and villages along the way. Going through West Cork, one encounters the towns of Clonakilty (famous for its Irish breakfast ingredients!), Bandon, Kinsale (famous for the Battle of Kinsale in 1601 when Irish forces supported by the Spanish, fought the English), Skibbereen and Bantry. Crossing the Cork-Kerry border, the next town is one of Kerry's most famous towns.....Kenmare. Here can be found many lively spots to wine and dine, and with a warm reception from the inhabitants, a true taste of rural Ireland can be experienced. Next stop, having traveled through the beautiful Killarney National Park, is the town of Killarney itself. This town, in the opinion of many, is a fine example of the true essence of Ireland, traditionally, culturally, historically and in every other way that appeals to visitors to these shores. Quite simply, it is a fantastic town, and a place where people of all ages gather to enjoy the 'ceol, ol agus craic'!! (music, drink and fun!)

Summary

Above mentioned are some good examples of the attractions that the southwest coast if Ireland has to offer. To truly experience it, sometimes a person must just explore and be curious about ''what is down that road'' or ''let's see where this takes us!''. A lot of tour companies just stick to pre-determined routes which, although can be a pleasant experience, often leaves the visitor wondering if there was something that they missed. So be sure to ask yourself before visiting Ireland, what you want to see and experience? How you want to feel? What you (and your family) want to take from the experience of visiting Ireland? And the memories that will you with you for a lifetime.

Dynamics Gp Reporting: Frx Financial Reports Notes For Consultant

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2. FRx consolidated reporting. When you need consolidated Great Plains P&L, BS, Statement of Cash Flow, you may think of FRx reporting trees, or FRx reports working off Microsoft Excel BS, PL and CS statements for smaller and international branches

3. FRx Report Anatomy. Here you have to learn Row Format and Column Layout. These two are not self apparent, and you need to do your homework in FRx Reports Designer

4. East European Countries and Microsoft Dynamics GP reporting and Implementation. Here we are talking about Poland, Czech Republic, Romania, Hungary, Serbia, Slovakia, Bulgaria, Lithuania, Latvia, Estonia, Ukraine, Belorussia, Russia, Finland, Norway, Sweden, Greece, Albania, Italy, Turkey, Georgia, Armenia. Great Plains Dynamics GP is compatible with ASCII, but it is not compatible with Unicode, due to Great Plains Dexterity restrictions. If you have subsidiary in East or even West Europe, where English language is not official, please give us a call

5. Dynamics GP versus Navision or Axapta in Eastern Europe. Frx Reporting is available for Dynamics AX Axapta, where in Navision Dynamics NAV you have Jet Reporting

America Displays The Fourteen Defining Traits Of Fascism

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America Displays The Fourteen Defining Traits Of Fascis

Political scientists and authors have produced volumes of material warning the public about the stripping of freedoms methodically being carried out by those who control the puppet government of America. Not much has been done to prevent the abuses of power, possibly because average Americans have specialized and bordered educations aimed at careers more than general knowledge of political philosophies or the history of other cultures, as is the norm in schools in countries of the British Commonwealth. In the case of poor areas in the U.S. there is only rudimentary education. The citizens are also extremely patriotic and believe that it's their country, right or wrong. This falls in line with the first defining trait of fascism: powerful and continuing nationalism.

Maintaining this fierce nationalism involves parading, constant use of patriotic slogans, symbols, songs, and other paraphernalia. They have two national anthems, The Star Spangled Banner and God Bless America, which are emoted at length at events that involve a lot of uniforms. Making clothes out of the American flag is common among conservatives these days, yet in the 1960s anti-war activist Abbie Hoffman was arrested for wearing such a shirt (at that time making clothing out of a flag was illegal and considered disrespectful but are now trailer park chic). Flags are seen everywhere – on lawns, shops, and clothing. The current puppet-president Obama was even criticized for not wearing a Stars and Stripes lapel pin!

The Presidency has become a reality show, with 24-hour news coverage full of diversion - aimed at an audience hungry for entertainment and gossip. Just like in the prophetic 1976 movie "Network" where Howard Beale berated the viewing audience, wailing "You maniacs! The tube isn't reality…we're the illusion! We're in the boredom killing business!" The plot leads up to Howard's confrontation with an executive of the Corporatists who reads him the riot act about who's in charge of the media and lets him know what he's going to say on the air, which turns out to be pretty boring so the network heads have him assassinated on live T.V. which leads up to the movie's punch line from the movie's narrator: "And so Howard Beale became the first network personality to be killed for having bad ratings…"

The second defining trait of fascism is the stripping away of human rights. They do this by creating a fear of outside enemies and the need for security; the people in fascist regimes are persuaded that human rights can be ignored in certain cases because of "need." The people would rather look the other way or even approve of torture, summary executions, assassinations, invasions, etc. In the U.S. this has come to pass in the form of the Patriot Act and the Homeland Security Act.

The next stage is identifying those enemies (usually scapegoats, since there may be no real threats or enemies) and whipping up the population into a patriotic frenzy. When the terror attacks of the U.S. Marine barracks, the Oklahoma bombing, and the first WTC bombing didn't produce enough dead bodies to galvanize the nation into hating "foreign" terrorists, the secret government of Wall Street bankers and oil barons (represented by Dick Cheney as overseer) set up the demolition of the three main towers on 9/11 so that the invasions of Afghanistan and Iraq would have public support. The plane assigned to hit Building 7 didn't reach its target so the building was exploded anyway for fear that the demolition termite bombs planted inside would be discovered. People didn't want to believe the obvious: the man in charge of the White House, Dick Cheney organized the attack to protect his future oil interests, and those of the Bush family, Rumsfeld, and Rice – while marching to the beat of the Trilateral Commission members like David Rockefeller, George H.W. Bush, and Dr. Henry Kissinger (who was given the Nobel Peace Prize in spite of the less-than-diplomatic carpet bombing of Laos and Cambodia he carried out as advisor to Nixon). For those who think the U.S. secret government wouldn't bomb its own military bases, consider these quotes from Kissinger:

"Soldiers are dumb, stupid animals to be used as pawns for foreign policy."

"The illegal we do immediately. The unconstitutional takes a little longer."

"Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac."

Supremacy of the military is the next trait of fascism and this needs little explanation, since those with vast amounts of money and military forces can control the people. Admiration of a leader becomes infectious when peppered with constant and effective propaganda and the masses tend to rally around one individual. Fascist Italy, Spain, and Germany were all military dictatorships. Soldiers and military service are glamorized and considered honorable. The American military has an unlimited budget and it maintains bases in 120 countries, while domestic problems are ignored and the people don't have jobs or adequate health care. The citizens remain patriotic and willingly send their children off to be killed or maimed in return for a piece of bronze on a ribbon.

In most fascist states there is rampant sexism to preserve the male-dominated ideal for further control by the state. Abortion, divorce, and homosexuality are suppressed. This has evolved to allow female participation in the modern U.S. mostly because the Rockefellers realized that they weren't taxing half of the population so the Rockefeller Foundation designed and supported the feminism movement of the Sixties to get "Rosie the Riveter" back to work even in peacetime. The power elite always have multiple objectives when exploiting society…allowing women back to the workplace not only produces more taxpayers but gives more hours per day for women to be out of touch with their children. The children adopt concepts provided by schools and are subject to the increased influence of television, a medium controlled by the corporatists.

Totalitarian control of people is partially achieved via propaganda delivered through mass-media controlled directly or indirectly by government regulation through financial ties with media executives. Major networks employ anchormen who are told what not to say, whether through intimidation or mutual self-interest. Like in the McCarthy witch-hunts of the Fifties, those who go against the powers that be are fired from their media jobs or worse. The fact that giant stories like the Caspian pipeline and the American government's terrible crime against their own people on 9/11 never comes up in the mainstream news (or cable news for that matter) suggests that intimidation is rampant and taken seriously by collaborators posing as liberal journalists.

Two seemingly-intelligent cable political reporters come to mind: Chris Matthews of MSNBC's Hardball segment is a frequent guest on Bill Maher's cable show. If you remember Bill Maher, he is the stand-up comedian who laughs nervously at the end of each joke to cue the audience that this is the point where they should laugh, just in case they weren't paying attention. Both of them state publicly that they believe the 9/11 Commission Report was correct and that the Trade Center buildings exploded into dust simply out of frustration. They ignore all scientific evidence proving beyond a shadow of a doubt that demolition explosives were used, and that no skyscraper has ever collapsed due to fire. Extensive research has been carried out and conclusions have been published by an organization of fairly conservative professionals on their site Architects and Engineers for 9/11 Truth where many of them who are voting Republicans express disappointment in the fact that the government has covered up the crime and betrayed fundamental principles. Bill Maher calls anyone who believes that a planned demolition took place "an idiot" and Chris Matthews agrees with him. Maher and Matthews call themselves "typical Irish Americans" and engage in humorous banter, discuss the never-ending (and boring) health reform issue, and hold themselves as bearers of the Truth. It smacks of coercion and intimidation, whether from compromised employers or government spooks who are in a position to guarantee retribution beyond simple career interference or character assassination. Bill Maher has been trying to keep a low profile concerning his background for fear of discrimination; he is half-Jewish and living in a low-key homosexual relationship. However, due to the silence of so many people who must know something of the 9/11 operation and won't come forward it can be assumed that physical threats are part of the equation. When an agent of the government assures a person that he and his family will disappear, a secret can be maintained for enough years for the perpetrators to be clear of prosecution.

The seventh trait of fascism is obsession with national security. Fear is used as a tool to control the masses. The 3 World Trade Center skyscrapers blew up on live T.V. and the nation became so paralyzed with fear that they would allow any law to be passed that would protect them from the bearded terrorist in the cave on the other side of the world. The Bush administration rushed to remove all rights under the U.S. Constitution, which he referred to as "just a goddamn piece of paper".

The use of religion to control people is another basic tool of fascist states. The most prevalent national religion is intertwined with politics to manipulate the population. Religious rhetoric is spouted from political leaders, even when the words don't match the actions. America is fervently Evangelical Christian, a rabidly fundamentalist bible-thumping population; George Bush says God speaks through him, and probably has a good laugh in private since he cares more about beer, cocaine, and barbeques than any religious ideas. Everyone remembers the eight long years of the self-centered rambling of Bush sharing his thoughts about himself and reflecting on things about him.

The ninth trait of fascism is the business/government relationship and the protection of corporate power. The industrial powers and business aristocracy are the ones who put the government leaders in power and so the state and big business are one and the same. The origin of the word "fascist" comes from the Latin word "fasces" which means "bundle of sticks" and symbolized power through unity. A stick breaks when it is alone, but the Egyptians bound groups of sticks together with rope to make parts for some of their war weapons. The sticks became incredibly strong when tied in a circular bundle.

In a fascist state labor power is suppressed because the organizing power of labor is the only real threat to the regime. For this reason, labor unions are suppressed or eliminated. In the case of the U.S. they have been historically corrupted or infiltrated by mobsters. During Reagan's presidency the Air Traffic Controllers' Union went on a nationwide strike and the strikers were simply fired. The public didn't complain because their vacation plans were more important than curtailing misuse of power. The North American Union so absent from the news includes plans for a superhighway from Texas to Canada right through the center of the continent so that ships from Asia can dock in Mexico in non-union ports, thereby destroying the Longshoreman's Union. The trucks loading the cargo would have non-union drivers. The AFL-CIO would be worn-down by carefully-manufactured recessions and unemployment will end this possible source of resistance and the end game will be a government-manufactured worldwide depression so everyone will be too busy trying to get through each day to act against a lawless government. This most likely is scheduled for the 100th anniversary of the Federal Reserve Act in 1913 when the U.S. first gave up control of the national money supply to rich bankers and industrialists. It seems that power is a sentimental game to them since they are carrying on generations-old family traditions, a veritable Cosa Nostra of finance.

In fascist dictatorships there is also a concerted effort to suppress intellectuals, academics, and professors but the U.S. has learned well from the Nazis, who failed to hold onto some very valuable scientists like Einstein, who left Germany when the Jews began to be persecuted. They know that the education system has to be undermined from the bottom up: young people who have been through the American education system know almost nothing about other countries, and precious little about their own country. Yale, Harvard, and Princeton will still exist for the elite, but the general population can barely speak English.

All-powerful states become obsessed with crime and punishment – of other people of course; police agencies are given almost limitless powers to enforce laws. Besides the well-known mammoth bureaus like the CIA, FBI, IRS, DEA and ATF, there are approximately 18,760 separate police agencies in the U.S. and now they have added the Department of Homeland Security – to "Preserve our freedoms". In Bushspeak, this means elimination of freedoms. To get to the truth behind the propaganda spouted by the White House, simply believe the opposite of what they say. Even as the towers were destroyed, Bush was on the airwaves proclaiming "Steps have been taken to protect the American people". This was right out of Orwell's 1984, where the calming voice of Big Brother assured the people that all was well and that the outside enemy was being dealt with.

The new PR man sitting on the White House throne, Barack Obama (a lawyer from the most corrupt political area in the U.S. – Chicago), has been installed as the new improved face of totalitarianism. He was hailed as the squeaky-clean savior that would fix the nation's misery, but instead has confirmed the notion that it doesn't matter if Democrats or Republicans are in power – the 13th trait of fascism comes into play: rampant corruption and cronyism. Groups of business associates and friends appoint each other to key positions and use governmental power and authority to protect each other from accountability. They are above the law, and in most fascist states they plunder resources and national wealth, shown in the sevenfold increase in futures trading on the Chicago Stock Exchange just before the 9/11 closure of the New York stock market. Inside knowledge made fortunes for those betting that airline stocks would plummet. This was one of the many objectives successfully accomplished by the 9/11 event. More recently, the Federal Reserve has simply been taking the money and sending it to Central Banks in Europe. One slush fund totaled 2.2 trillion dollars and when the Fed chairman was questioned by Congressman Alan Grayson as to which banks the money got the money, he refused to answer, first saying he couldn't remember one name offhand.

The situation exists where people like Dick Cheney can commit the most horrendous war crimes, engage in high treason, cause the torture and killing of untold numbers of people and still be above prosecution. He said he didn't recall 71 times when being questioned by the FBI about the Valerie Plane affair where Cheney revealed that she was a CIA agent. He got Scooter Libby to take the fall and Libby's sentence was commuted by the White House. Cheney was never charged or placed under oath in front of a Grand Jury, just as he and Bush were not placed under oath by the 9/11 Commission. Cheney wouldn't let Bush be separated and they spoke with the Commission in private only. They had to keep their stories straight because Junior would never last under questioning and his vice-president knew it. Bush was sweating it out, telling the press outside “I’ve got nothing to hide!” when they asked why they wouldn’t go under oath and testify separately.

Elections in fascist states are rigged – the U.S. included. Disinformation, smear campaigns, and distraction are common tools to sway public opinion. Corruption in the voting system has been long-entrenched in American politics. In the days of Joe Kennedy, he simply had the Mafia help JFK to get elected, since a Catholic would probably lose if some intervention wasn't carried out. Of course, the fraud in Florida that got Bush elected is well-known. A coup was necessary when John Kennedy decided to become a man of the people, disband the CIA, and pull out of Vietnam at a time when the Military-Industrial Complex needed the war to stimulate the steel and arms industries. The assassination became necessary to let the politicians know who was boss. Lyndon Johnson was heard on Air Force 1 saying "it's a plot, they're going to get us all"…immediately after the coffin was loaded onto the plane. That quote never came to the surface until November 2009 in a book containing declassified information.

One more quote from Henry Kissinger is particularly descriptive of the way fear will continue to be used until the people will beg for a police state, just as laid out in the plan for the New World Order. Notice that he said this in the same year as the first World Trade Center bombing:

"Today, America would be outraged if UN troops entered Los Angles to restore order. Tomorrow, they will be grateful! This would especially be true if they were told that there were an outside threat from beyond, whether real or promulgated that threatened our very existence. It is then that all peoples of the world will plead to deliver them from this evil. The one thing that man fears is the unknown. When presented with scenario, individual rights will be willingly relinquished for the guarantee of their well-being granted to them by a World Government." – Henry Kissinger, 1991

How To Stop Their Child From Crying In 30 Seconds Or LessDecember'to do list.

eing a mother of 3 children, I have felt this way many times, and always wished I could have a solution to make the child quiet in 30 seconds or less. That way everyone can move on, and I don't need to get stressed, nor do they need to be stressed, or crying.

My first question to all parents is why do children cry? There are many reasons a child cries. I will list briefly what some of those reasons are: hunger, fear, someone hurt them, they want something, or just trying to get attention. Have you ever been in a situation where you have a 2-7 year old and something happens, and they begin crying so loud? Crying uncontrollably? It's as if someone was trying to kidnap them, yet nothing has happened to them. To the child it feels as if their world is falling apart. Yet most parents feels that ignoring the problem is the solution, but it's not. I have stated what some doctor's have to say about that, after extensive research being done on children crying."

"One study showed infants who experienced persistent crying episodes were 10 times more likely to have ADHD as a child, along with poor school performance and antisocial behavior. The researchers concluded these findings may be due to the lack of responsive attitude of the parents toward their babies." (Wolke, D, et al, Persistent Infant Crying and Hyperactivity Problems in Middle Childhood, Pediatrics, 2002; 109:1054-1060.)

"Dr. Brazy at Duke University and Ludington-Hoe and colleagues at Case Western University showed in 2 separate studies how prolonged crying in infants causes increased blood pressure in the brain, elevates stress hormones, obstructs blood from draining out of the brain, and decreases oxygenation to the brain. They concluded that caregivers should answer cries swiftly, consistently, and comprehensively." (J pediatrics 1988 Brazy, J E. Mar 112 (3): 457-61. Duke University. Ludington-Hoe SM, Case Western U, Neonatal Network 2002 Mar; 21(2): 29-36)

Due to all of these factors and many more, I decided to find a solution to the problem that many parents face.

What is the new technique? Well, reading many books in this field, studying child psychology, and going to many seminars still sometimes doesn't equip you for what real life throws at you. At amazement one day, I told myself I had to figure out how to quiet these kids quickly, and effectively. For I am a stay at home who home schools, and works from home. I couldn't have them crying all day, if I was teaching the other ones, or if I started cleaning. Yet, I don't have the time to sit with each one for 10-15 minutes at a time. That alone took most of my time. That's when I tested and tried my new strategy. I thought if it worked for me, than it could work on anyone. Are you ready?

Basically, anytime a child begins to cry for whatever reason it is:

1. You take a deep breath and then bring them close to you, and then go through these exercises with them.
2. You show them how to take a deep breath. As they take one, take another one, and then another one. I usually take 4-5 deep breaths with them, and then I say ok, now we will do it this way.
3. I start to blow out faster and faster and laugh while I am doing it. They love this part the most. They blow out and smile and laugh with me. It changes their whole mood, and they no longer are crying.
4. Once they have calmed down, then I sit them on my lap and ask them what happened. By this time, their smiling and they have to use a normal tone, not a whining tone to tell me what happened.
5. After they tell me, then I help them figure out what went wrong, and what not to do again, to get that type of reaction. They agree, and it's finally over. I break the pattern they are in, with a whole new pattern, which helps them calm themselves down.

I have used this technique not only on my children, but also my neighbor's children, nieces and nephews. Their ages ranged from 2-7 years old. It has worked every time for me. It just takes some patience, time and practice. You will see eventually the kids will be doing these techniques to other kids they see behaving the way they did. My son and daughter sometimes teach me these techniques if I am sad and crying. It really works for adults as well as children. You just need 30 seconds to implement it, and then they're on their way.

Once you can get your child to learn these new habits, you then teach them that crying and whining doesn't really help them get what they want. If they want something, they need to ask for it kindly, and if it is something the parent thinks the child needs they will get it, if it is not, then they need to understand the parent knows best. The more the parent is able to explain to the child, the better the child understands. Sometimes it takes 10 - 20 times of repetition, but eventually it does soak in. It is also at this time, that I speak to the other child about how they treated this one. If there is two or three of them, then once this child is relaxed, I go over and tell the other ones, what they did was wrong, and that' not how we should treat this situation. I then give them an example of how I would treat this situation. That way they are aware that there is many ways to deal with a situation. I want the kids to put that in their memory banks of their brains, and use it when this situation or another similar one arises.

A few more quotes on why crying is not the right thing for a child to carry on

• "Leaving a baby to cry evokes physiological responses that increase stress hormones. Crying infants experience an increase in heart rate, body temperature and blood pressure. These reactions are likely to result in overheating and, along with vomiting due to extreme distress, could pose a potential risk of SIDS in vulnerable infants. There may also be longer-term emotional effects. There is compelling evidence that increased levels of stress hormones may cause permanent changes in the stress responses of the infant's developing brain. These changes then affect memory, attention, and emotion, and can trigger an elevated response to stress throughout life, including a predisposition to later anxiety and depressive disorders." Pinky McKay

Pinky McKay is the mother of five, an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) and a Certified Infant Massage Instructor.

• English psychotherapist, Sue Gerhardt, author of Why Love Matters: How Affection Shapes a Baby's Brain, " explains that when a baby is upset, the hypothalamus produces cortisol. In normal amounts cortisol is fine, but if a baby is exposed for too long or too often to stressful situations (such as being left to cry) its brain becomes flooded with cortisol and it will then either over- or under-produce cortisol whenever the child is exposed to stress. Too much cortisol is linked to depression and fearfulness; too little to emotional detachment and aggression."

At this time I would like to go into a summary of how all of this works:

• First, take a deep breath your self.
• Next, bring the crying child over and teach them how to take deep breaths, tell them to follow you. Take about 4-5 Deep Breaths.
• Third, have them blow out back to back for another 10 seconds. By this time, the kid should be laughing out loud with you.
• Fourth, now you have broken their pattern of crying into being happy.
• Ask what happened, and help them understand.

This is vital to break the pattern. Once the pattern is broken with something better taking its place then it won't be long when, you'll notice they cry less and less. As they age they will realize that crying should be left for something really painful and not every two minutes. As parents and educators we need to teach them to learn there are different styles and ways to do things. We need them to be able to help them calm themselves down, and them to formulate that habit as they grow up. To be confident, and handle any situation that comes at them with a different approach. This approach will lower their stress and build their confidence. The less they cry, and the more they are loved, the more stability these kids will have with their own emotio